Each year you should choose three words that will help you stay focused on what’s important.
The words relate to everything you do. It also helps to say no to projects and tasks that won’t help drive you toward meeting your outcomes for the year.
I learned about this exercise years ago from Chris Brogan. You can learn more about this exercise at Chrisbrogan.com.
Here are some additional tips from Brogan’s 2020 “My 3 Words” blog:
- Don’t make it a phrase. Don’t say, “publish the book.” It also wastes words by using “the.”
- Use words that are actionable if you can. “Expand” is better than “bigger.”
- The more useful and practical the words can be, the better. Don’t use words that are sexy. Use words that will be your compass.
- Stick with the three words all year. Every time I’ve changed one a month or two later, the year mucks up. I can’t explain it, but I can report it.
- Use plain words. Years where I’ve tried “fancy” words with layers of meaning, I lost the thread.
- Personal meaning. The words don’t have to mean anything to anyone but you. Don’t worry about explaining them.
How to Get Started
A great place to start getting ideas for your words is by looking at your development plan and your past performance reviews. What topics came up? You can also look at your strengths and decide if you want to develop those. Think about the projects you have coming up. What do they all have in common? If you are working with a coach, talk it through with your coach.
Don’t overthink this exercise. What are the first words that come to mind? Those are most likely the words you will want to use.
For example, this year, I chose the words:
- Intention
- Growth
- Connection
You can find many more examples by searching for three words from Chris Brogan or checking out his website.
Your Turn
After you have selected your words, share them with friends, colleagues, and your team. It’s also a great exercise to do with your team.
Leave us a comment and your three words.
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